BEING FAT IS NOT A CURSE

Yes i am fat! i have big boobs, chubby arms, not too big ass. Let me confess>> small ass! *straight face. The holiday didn’t help matters. I added a couple of flesh. I am comfortable in my skin, i can dance, i can walk, i am not deformed. I am tired of people making me feel like i suddenly became as big as an elephant.



Don't you hate it when your friends, family, scream right n your face oh! you re fat! You should eat less! Look at you. What have you been eating?  All of a sudden friends who eat like lions became expert nutritionist. The height was when a friend said I look like a woman with two kids. *WHAT!!! I was upset & I starved myself for a week. Yeah! Trust. It didn’t work.



Why do you hurt people with words?  Don’t  you see people beyond their body?When you say things like that for a long time to people believe me they start to feel ugly, insecure, timid & start to hide under ugly dresses to hide the fat.  



Before you go about pointing fingers& bad mouthing fat people. Look at yourself, imagine yourself in couple of years would you still be all lean? Yeah! Possible if you keep fit. But for how long would you cheat nature?  Stop hurting your friends your family& making silly jokes about how they look. If you love them, help them to lose weight. Losing weight can be fun if you are encouraged by people who love you. Going to the gym together is not a bad idea. Jumping the rope together.*fun*.  Taking long walks & laughing your heads out. The list is endless.



My sweetheart, yeah! If you are reading this you are sweetheart! Stop picking on your fat friends. Help them burn it. Remember under all the fat is a cheerful, happy, man, woman, girl, boy, friend uncle, aunt, mum, bff. Don’t kill their self confident. Help them become a better person who can achieve anything. Fat is not a curse. Fat in the right places is sexy. If you are fat out there, blow a kiss to the person in the mirror& tell yourself I am fat & I know it. I am not gonna let it stop me from achieving my dreams.



Stay fabulous!



xoxo